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Tuesday, February 01, 2005

THE LOVE SURVEY

1. Are you serious when it comes to relationships?
Yes. I truly am, although sometimes i don't know whether its better to be more serious or just loosen up...

2. Are you afraid of commitments?
No, i'm not.. I think it's a part of a relationship.. Don't you?

3. Are you a risk taker?
Errm.. It depends on a person's definition on taking risks.. If i think it'll be worth taking, I'll take it.. Depends on the outcome, you get what I mean?

4. What can you say about long distance relationships?
As one of my friends said before, only a few special relationships can maintain it.. I don't think I can.. Been there, done that..

5. Can you love a person who doesn't love you?
Yup. I believe that you do not have to own a person to love them. They're 2 different things.. If being with me will not make my love happy, then so be it.. If it means being with another, then so be it.. Because if you truly love a person, you want them to be as happy, even if it's your unhappiness..

6. Do actions speak louder than words?
Yes. Saying I LOVE YOU without truly showing that you do would be a waste of time. Telling them and SHOWING them that you care is a totally different thing.

7. Have u felt/found true love?
In every relationship I would like to think that i have. It can maybe act as an encouragement and like give you the state of mind to think that: "wow, it might actually work this time..". And this time, I really mean it.

8. How can you say that a person loves you?
Haha.. I don't know.. I guess it's sort of a.. ermm.. 6th sense.. It's like you just know when they have feelings for you.. It's in their eyes.. Eyes don't lie.. And maybe their actions as well..

9. Are you good in handling relationships?
I don't know. No one has ever told me that I do. But then again, no one has ever told me i don't as well. So, its a question you should ask other people. Not me.

10. Willing to give everything?
Yes. Definitely.

11. Best thing you've learned from loving?
I learned that the most inportant thing is not being together physically, but more spiritually.. I think that truthfulness and total faith in your significant other is imperative to continue a relationship. And that love is really a rollercoaster. There are its thrills and there are its boring parts.. But generally, there will be ups and downs.. It's just that everyone hopes that their ride will never ever end.

12. Do you demand your loved one to change into someone that pleases you?
No I won't. Because you love this person in the first place because of who they are. Therefore, I would NEVER ask them to change to please me.

13. Would you let go of someone you love?
To enable them to be happier and live a better life than now? YES. Because you think that it would be impossible to continue? NO. Because there's never impossible. You just gotta keep on trying.

14. Are you a one woman man & vice versa type of person?
Yeah, I am. I believe that it's important to be loyal. And besides, one night stands won't do anyone any good would it?

15. Is sex important in a relationship?
Wahahaha.. Not now, it isn't. *wink*

16. How do you express your love to someone?
Remembering to tell her how much she means to you. That my life isn't complete without her. By doing the simple things that make her day a little more joyous and happier to live. But that's how I do it.

17. What is the major reason of a break up?
Mostly because of misunderstandings, lack of campatibility and outside influences. Gosh, I hate to think bout this..

18. Most important ingredient in a relationship?
Loyalty, Faith, Trust, Fun.

19. Ever regret loving someone?
No, because every relaionship I've gone through gave me more experiences, on what to do and what not to do as well as a deeper understanding of the opposite gender. That's why i don't reagret any of them. I learn from it.

20. One thing you hate about love?
The abruptness of it. Love like can never be found. You can't just go like: "Oh, I tihink I'm financially stable to support a girlfriend. I think I'll go 'hunting' for one". Love is like... bumped into.. And as sudden as it's found, it can be lost as well. I hate that. ( The part where you lose it suddenly.. not the finding.. )

21. One thing you like about love?
The feeling that you are important to someone and that you wake up everyday feeling loved. Feeling that the best thing in the world is happening to you. And feeling so close to another person.

22. Worst thing you did to a loved one?
Not standing up for them. But that was before. Not now.

23. Are you in love?
Madly.

24. With whom?
Those who know me should know. Those who don't, well, ponder on.

25. Do you have a bf/gf?
Yes.

26. Why?
There is a why? Love I guess?

27. Are you a hopeless romantic?
Yes, unfortunately.

28. Do you get tired of loving?
Yeah, I do. When my significant other doesn't show that they care, doesn't show that they do miss and feel for me. Yeah, sometimes I do.. But I really can't break it up. Normally, it's the other person who breaks it up, not me. It's because, 1. I can't live with the thought of giving up the best thing in my life, and, 2. I'm a hopeless romantic. (refer above question)

29. Who has changed your view about loving?
Myself.. Constant thinking can give you a new perspective on Love.

30. Message to your loved ones?
I love you baby.. Then, Now, and in the Future.. Mwaks!

divinition slips into the oblivion.. 11:25:00 pm

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